Answers to the questions I receive the most are answered below. If you do not see an answer to your question, please send me an email to firstname.lastname@example.org. I promise to answer all emails within 24 hours. If the question is asked several times I will add it to this page.
Q: Do I have to complete all the information on the contact form to schedule an appointment with you?
A: You do need to complete all the information that is starred on the contact form. You also need to include an ID from Date Check, P411, TER, or TBD. If you do not have one of those IDs you will need to provide two provider references. If you are requesting a BDSM appointment I require the provider references even if you have one of the requested IDs. If you don’t have provider references you will need to follow the instructions regarding emailing me from your work address. Screening is necessary the first time I see you, after that you are free to just email me to set up appointments.
Q: What if I don’t want to be screened?
A: Then I’m very sorry but I will not see you.
Q: Do you have any age requirements?
A: Yes, I only see people who are 30 years of age or older. This is a personal preference of mine due to the fact that my oldest child is almost 26 and I am not comfortable seeing anyone younger than her or too close to her age. As her age increases the age requirement will also increase.
Q: Do you accept credit cards as a form of payment for appointments?
A: No, I’m very sorry but credit cards are not accepted for appointments due to the fact that it is too easy to do a chargeback and then I am left with nothing except a chargeback fee.
Q: Do you allow photos or videos during our time together?
A: I have never allowed it before, due to the fact that I am afraid that the content could be posted on the Internet and I have to protect my identity to the general public. However, now that I have a paid membership area for the site I do need quality video and special pics for this area. So if you can assure me the pics and video are for your own use and you wouldn’t mind sharing the content on the site (with your identity fully protected) I will allow pics and video.
Q: Do you offer incall?
A: No, not at this time. Please visit the Forum and check under Important News to see information about future incalls.
Q: Do you accept gift cards as a form of payment?
A: I will accept American Express gift cards as a form of payment provided you provide the receipt showing the card was activated. If you do not have the receipt I will need to call and verify the card is active before we can enjoy our time together.
Q: What is the best way to handle the donation?
A: Please put the donation in an envelope. The best place is on the bathroom vanity. I will always freshen up when I arrive and I will be able to find it easily. I feel this is the best way to ensure there are no awkward moments in regard to the donation.
Q: Why don’t you have a phone number posted?
A: This is explained under the Etiquette Page. Basically, I have a full time job and a family. I cannot be taking calls regarding my extra curricular activities at work or around the family so I use email as my only form of contact. I get emails on my phone so even if you need to contact me suddenly I will get the message right away.
Q: What are the benefits of becoming a paid member versus a free member?
A: Please see the Forum and check under Membership Benefits.
Q: Do you offer discounts?
A: I do offer monthly discounts to free and paid members. The discounts for paid members are better than those for free members. Please check the Forum under the Membership Benefits to see the posted discounts for the month. Each discount will have a code. Be sure to enter the code on the contact form for the discount you would like to use. Your membership must match the code, meaning if you are a free member you cannot use one of the paid membership codes. Your membership must also be current the day of your scheduled appointment in order for you to claim the discount. I will check to ensure your membership is current.
Q: Do you see clients of all races?
A: Yes, I have no restrictions on race.
Q: Are you available for overnights?
A: At this time, no. I do still have a 19 year old son at home and I’ve never made it a habit to be gone all night, so not making him suspicious of why I’m not going to be home all night is about impossible. I also work a full time job and couldn’t do it on a week day night for that reason. Possibly once my son is gone I will offer overnights on a Friday or Saturday, but most likely they would be incalls because I do have 2 little doggies who need me to take care of them and I couldn’t leave them alone all night.
Q: Do you allow Greek?
A: This is answered on the Services Page. I do not allow Greek for GFE sessions. I only allow Greek for BDSM appointments. Lubrication is always required for any type of anal play during BDSM sessions. Proper preparation is also required; I do not want any injuries.
Q: I am planning a business trip to DC and really want to see you. What if I schedule time with you and then my plans change am I am no longer able to see you?
A: I realize that sometimes even the best laid plans change and many times you have no control over those changes. All I ask is that you let me know as soon as possible if your plans change. Please do not wait till the last minute to let me know. I often delay going home in order to meet you and I will not be happy if I’ve hung around for two hours only to find out you need to cancel.